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I was just referring back to a workshop I ran in South Africa for the Good Financial Governance programme of GIZ (German International Cooperation) and saw that they have written quite a nice summary. While we didn’t use LSP for the whole workshop, it is nice for once to see the client explicitly appreciating the use of the methodology […] View
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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Conflict mediation with LSP? in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 4 months ago

    Hi Martin,
    One question that can get this sort of discussion going is “what happened in the past”.
    Perhaps introduce the discussion in a wider context with more people. If the problem doesn’t emerge during the wider discussion, you will at least have uncovered some interesting perspectives. You would then be able to drill down with those who are…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Conflict mediation with LSP? in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 4 months ago

    Hi Martin,
    One question that can get this sort of discussion going is “what happened in the past”.
    Perhaps introduce the discussion in a wider context with more people. If the problem doesn’t emerge during the wider discussion, you will at least have uncovered some interesting perspectives. You would then be able to drill down with those who are…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Conflict mediation with LSP? in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 4 months ago

    Hi Martin,
    One question that can get this sort of discussion going is “what happened in the past”.
    Perhaps introduce the discussion in a wider context with more people. If the problem doesn’t emerge during the wider discussion, you will at least have uncovered some interesting perspectives. You would then be able to drill down with those who are…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Real Time Strategy for Teams in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 9 months ago

    Hi Gabriel,
    Answers:
    Yes, a pair build is when two individuals build a single construction – a hybrid between individual and shared. You have the basic advantages of negotiation, while still maintaining a certain intimacy/privacy.

    Regarding connections, most participants are already doing it before we get to that formal step, so the answer to the…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Real Time Strategy for Teams in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 9 months ago

    Hi Gabriel,
    I recently ran a “Team-Building” Workshop for MSC Cruises with Tatiana Gavrilova and Joyce Miller. This was a mandate we got through the seriousplaypro web site, so we will be paying 10% of our fees back to seriousplaypro as a referral fee.

    Personally, I resent being asked to use LSP for “Team-Building”, because I maintain that…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Real Time Strategy for Teams in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 9 months ago

    Hi Gabriel,
    I recently ran a “Team-Building” Workshop for MSC Cruises with Tatiana Gavrilova and Joyce Miller. This was a mandate we got through the seriousplaypro web site, so we will be paying 10% of our fees back to seriousplaypro as a referral fee.

    Personally, I resent being asked to use LSP for “Team-Building”, because I maintain that…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Real Time Strategy for Teams in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 9 years, 9 months ago

    Hi Gabriel,
    I recently ran a “Team-Building” Workshop for MSC Cruises with Tatiana Gavrilova and Joyce Miller. This was a mandate we got through the seriousplaypro web site, so we will be paying 10% of our fees back to seriousplaypro as a referral fee.

    Personally, I resent being asked to use LSP for “Team-Building”, because I maintain that…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Start up development and LSP in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 1 month ago

    Hi Hugues,
    Frequently, start-ups have a product and haven’t yet grown up the organisational structure around them.
    I would imagine that some standard Identity and Strategy work would be worthwhile in such situations.
    Best regards,
    Eli

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    Eli De Friend wrote a new post 10 years, 2 months ago

    While preparing a mail to a previous client, I was just referring back to a workshop I ran in South Africa for the Good Financial Governance programme of GIZ (German International Cooperation) and saw that they

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic LSP Facilitator Question Database in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 3 months ago

    Hi Guys, I’m not sure I have really understood the “use case” to use an IT term for your knowledge platform. Isn’t the current seriousplaypro platform exactly that.? On this site, some people ask for recommendations of questions or roadmaps and others share examples of questions or approaches that they feel may be of value to others. This is an…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic What if somebody without formal LEGO SERIOUS PLAY training offers LSP workshops in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 8 months ago

    Hi Marko,
    Thanks for raising this topic. I think your own personal story is a very eloquent one and perhaps significantly more powerful one than my own, which is similar.

    I learnt about LSP in 2002 from Joyce Miller, who, as a freelance researcher and communications consultant working for the Imagination Lab in Lausanne, had just attended the…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Instant LSP or How flexible is the method? in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 9 months ago

    Dear Manuel,
    As you were trained by Robert, I am sure that you are currently respecting the principles, process and ethics of the method as much as anyone.

    When in doubt, stick to what you know.

    Regarding improvisation, I fear that it would be quite risky to improvise a building task. I already find it difficult to explain a task, when it is in…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Project in Innovation Management,? Would you be willing to answer some questions in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 9 months ago

    Hi Enrique,
    I fear that consulting the members of this web site may provide you with data that is useless. Presumably, everyone on this site has joined because they have some interest in LEGO SERIOUS PLAY, which basically is a methodology that facilitates sustainable change/innovation.

    So you normally wouldn’t have anyone here that doesn’t…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend wrote a new post 10 years, 10 months ago

    Dear All,

    I’ll be running a workshop in Cape Town, South Africa at the beginning of May. This is a development cooperation mandate and they certainly don’t have any budget for LSP material for 20 participants,

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Lessons Learned in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 10 months ago

    Hi Marko,
    To be honest, I never do the full two hours, but to give you an idea about how the time can be allocated.

    Construction:
    Instructions 1 minute + building 3 minutes + debrief 2 minutes + deconstructing models 1 minute = 8 minutes

    Metaphor:
    Instructions 2 minutes, building 10 minutes, explaining 10 minutes, debrief 2 minutes +…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Lessons Learned in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 10 months ago

    Hi Gabriel,

    Thanks for posting your experiences. Everyone should read your story.

    I’m surprised that you recommend an hour skill-building. I’m sure I was told in training that it should be 2 hours!

    Handling the talkative ones is just part of the job of being a facilitator. Doing the skills building right won’t get your participants obeying…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Selling LSP in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 11 months ago

    Balint, I think we all understand the challenge; we have all met people who are shortsighted and don’t want to invest. Believe me, Eastern Europe does not have a monopoly on shortsightedness. Wall Street in New York has proven time and again that it cannot see beyond the end of its next 3-month nose. So these are the people whose careers are going…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Selling LSP in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 11 months ago

    Luc, I find terms like C-level quite confusing; still here’s a list of CAPRESE LSP references, where senior management have been involved (I’ll leave it to you to decide whether VP R&D EMEA in Honeywell ACS who reports to an Executive VP is senior or junior to VP R&D Aerolia who reports directly to a…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Selling LSP in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 11 months ago

    Guys don’t fall into the numbers trap! What about keeping the company in business, rather than going bankrupt? What about creating a context in which products are developed more efficiently? Having a more efficient R & D department might not affect your bottom line in the short term, but may help your organisation to develop products and services…[Read more]

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    Eli De Friend replied to the topic Selling LSP in the forum Group logo of Serious Play ForumSerious Play Pro Forum 10 years, 11 months ago

    Guys don’t fall into the numbers trap! What about keeping the company in business, rather than going bankrupt? What about creating a context in which products are developed more efficiently? Having a more efficient R & D department might not affect your bottom line in the short term, but may help your organisation to develop products and services…[Read more]

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